People Want You To Do It If You Suggest Them Not To Do. Why?

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When you strongly suggest people to stay away from it and tell not to do it they think unintentionally that you should do it, people don't even know that they want you to do it. They want you to do it because they see others doing it, they can't differentiate between long term benefits and losses. they want to do but they can't, because they see only positive sides if they're interested, and negative sides of something that when not interested but that's not good for them.

People Want You To Do It If You Suggest Them Not To Do. Why?

Hello guys, welcome back to my blog. How all are you doing today? I hope you all are enjoying well in your lives.  Did you ever suggest people to stay away from any particular work or way? What was the result? I asked this because when you strongly suggest people to stay away from it, and tell them not to do it, they think unintentionally that you should do it. And people don’t even know that they want you to do it.

Is that true? Did you ever face the situations like that? Let me guess that you may have faced this types of situations. And one fact about this is that people don’t even know they want you to do whatever you suggest them not to do. What did I observe is that they want you to do it because they see others doing it, they can’t differentiate between long term benefits and losses. 

People Want You To Do It If You Suggest Them Not To Do. Why?

What do I mean to say is that people want you unintentionally to do it if you suggest them not to do it. It’s only because they can’t differentiate between long term benefits and losses. They think you should be doing it because others are doing that and it’s beneficial for you. But what happens is that they think for short term goals and they want life to be easier and better in short time. So, they don’t have any ideas about Interests, passions, spirituality, good things, bad things, and all the good ideas that come in your mind. Let’s take an example of government examination for government jobs and admission for college. If you suggest someone for not running behind competitive examinations by competition. After sometime they suggest you to do that. It’s because they can’t differentiate between long term benefits and losses. And one more thing is that they want to do it but they can’t. The main reason behind the people suggest you to do that is that they see only positive sides of something if they are interested in that. And they see negative sides of something if they are not interested. That is not good for them, and others as well.

People Want You To Do It If You Suggest Them Not To Do. Why?